Sunday, January 10, 2010

Finding Happiness ...

Singleness is not a condition to be cured. Being single is natural-as natural as being part of a couple. In a society that seems defined by relationships-there are lots of assumptions about singles.

Happiness is not something you seek out in the form of a dysfunctional relationship. It’s something that you can create with or without someone in tow. If you can start to be happy independently of a man, it is very difficult for them to have the power to dictate every positive and negative emotion that you feel.

Bring out the full woman inside you and see the world in full color. Get use to be on with your own. In Fact, If you can't be happy with yourself, why would you think that someone else wants to? 

Take the time to look back at your path in retrospect. Make resolutions to be a better person, a better daughter, a better friend although you may feel you are one right now. Make a list of all the tom-boyish, ever craved activities you couldn't get on to and tick off one  by one. You will feel as lively as ever and the carefree life is actually envied by most ladies who may have tried to stand on your feet.

Make the best out of today. Live life to the fullest. "vive ut vivas" . Remember, you are not just single, but single and fabulous.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Better to ...

My mind has been a mix bag of thoughts today, but to conclude the day I will remember Lord Alfred Tennyson's words of wisdom:

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Resolutions for '10

Dawn of a new year brings in fresh thoughts, fresh resolutions. My resolutions for the year goes as follows: Read, Reflect, Reconnect and Reinforce.

I m adamant that life will change for the better with the new resolutions although we need to admit the fact that not only victory, but failure is also a part of the life of a human. The more obstacles you face, the more wiser you become, provided that you take your lesson with reflection.

The days will pass by even if they were used for some useful purpose or not. So it is us who should decide to take the best out of what is offered to us. The past fears should be set aside, and you must conquer new horizons of life.