Dear Friend...

Meeting you was fate,

Becoming your friend was a choice,

But falling in love with you was beyond my control.

I m so glad that you are at my side,

You ll be never forgotten as a friend for life. 
Because, Friendship isn't about who you have known the longest

but about who came and never left your side. 

On My Toes

One of my senior lecturers once said " If you want to get the work done, ask from a busy man". The more I think of it, the more it seems true to me. I myself feel like a ballerina as I m on my toes around the clock. But the best part is the way I feel about myself at an end of a busy day. The mare thought of utilizing every possible second of my life for something worth while overwhelms me.

Although I have been working full time as an undergrad, life was never this hectic.That was just playing two roles, not fully understanding the magnitude of your own actions. Being at a full time job, being a postgrad plus other commitments of your own isn't making life any easier, but the ambitions will keep you going. Trying to maintain a perfect balance between work, studies, family, friends, hobbies and your social life is not a very easy task but, the enjoyment of trying-to-make-it-happen makes my day. 

I must say, that I m content as to how life has turned out to be although it is like running a never ending marathon. The busy schedule has forced me to live by the day. It would drive me to the fence and ideally speaking, freak me out if I try to think of the to-do list for the coming month. But, I have promised my self to keep up with the resolutions and no matter how much I deviate from them I ll keep on coming back. 

In the end what matters is, living a life with no regrets. Carpe Diam !! Seize the day. Live your life to the fullest.

My Own Standards...

You may be one of those people who live by your own standards, rather than someone who follows the society standards. May be you are in between and rationally trying to make sense in what ever you do in your life and think you were born to serve a purpose.

No matter which ever you are and no matter how high your own standards are, at a certain point of time,  someone who cares about you ( although you may think he/she may not ) may question your standards and may ask you to stoop yourself up from where you are right now. This may startle you as to why you are being eyed on when there is so much evil going around the world and the words may hurt as if they were knifing you through, but you should be thankful someone out there is watching you and trying to bring the best out of you.

What I have learned  is, if it’s an advice to change you for the betterment, it doesn’t matter even if its from the devil, just take it.  Life is all about learning to live and living to learn and it keeps becoming better and better. 

Giving a Shot at the Mother Tongue

කොන්ක්‍රිට් වනන්තරෙ ගෙවෙන්නා වු ජීවිතය තුල ලද ඇසිල්ලක මෙසෙ ලියන්නත සිත් විය. මාගෙ භාෂාව පරිෂීලන හෙකියාව පිලිබද ගැටලුවක් මතු නෙවැ යයි සිතමි.
උපතින් සිහලුන් වු අප සිහල බස හැසිරවිම පිලිබද මනා කල දැණුමකින් යුක්ත විය යුතු වෙමු. නමූදු අප විසින් පරිශිලනය කරනු ලබන්නෙ අපගෙ වටින බසින් ඉතා අල්ප මාත්‍රයකි. ඔබට ඔවා දෙන මාද සිහලින් අන්තර්ජලයෙ යමක් සතහන් කරන්නට සැරසෙන්නෙ ප්‍රථම වතාවටයි.
උදවු දුන් සොයුරු සොයුරියන්ට තුති. !!!

Finding Happiness ...

Singleness is not a condition to be cured. Being single is natural-as natural as being part of a couple. In a society that seems defined by relationships-there are lots of assumptions about singles.

Happiness is not something you seek out in the form of a dysfunctional relationship. It’s something that you can create with or without someone in tow. If you can start to be happy independently of a man, it is very difficult for them to have the power to dictate every positive and negative emotion that you feel.

Bring out the full woman inside you and see the world in full color. Get use to be on with your own. In Fact, If you can't be happy with yourself, why would you think that someone else wants to? 

Take the time to look back at your path in retrospect. Make resolutions to be a better person, a better daughter, a better friend although you may feel you are one right now. Make a list of all the tom-boyish, ever craved activities you couldn't get on to and tick off one  by one. You will feel as lively as ever and the carefree life is actually envied by most ladies who may have tried to stand on your feet.

Make the best out of today. Live life to the fullest. "vive ut vivas" . Remember, you are not just single, but single and fabulous.

Better to ...

My mind has been a mix bag of thoughts today, but to conclude the day I will remember Lord Alfred Tennyson's words of wisdom:

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

Resolutions for '10

Dawn of a new year brings in fresh thoughts, fresh resolutions. My resolutions for the year goes as follows: Read, Reflect, Reconnect and Reinforce.

I m adamant that life will change for the better with the new resolutions although we need to admit the fact that not only victory, but failure is also a part of the life of a human. The more obstacles you face, the more wiser you become, provided that you take your lesson with reflection.

The days will pass by even if they were used for some useful purpose or not. So it is us who should decide to take the best out of what is offered to us. The past fears should be set aside, and you must conquer new horizons of life.